Strokes happen for many different reasons – nobody can really first explain why or how they occur. The condition and treatment will differ depending on each individual. You should not panic but try to remain calm for your loved ones and most importantly yourself. You will be upset, desperate for news and updates but try to trust the medical staff to do their job to know how to treat the patient´s condition. If you are in a foreign hospital many of them should have a translator and staff to help you understand the situation and progress of your treatment.
I.C.U. – When a Patient is in Critical Care: When a patient is in critical condition, there is nothing that loved ones can do but wait for the medical update on their condition. If the patient ends in I.C.U. the visitors may become alarmed, overwhelmed and distressed by the scene of the amount of tubes and equipment. However, these are to help for various reasons of monitoring, to administer drugs, provide drips to ensure regular feed and, in some cases, a regular oxygen supply. It will be very upsetting, emotional and a shock to witness but please be assured that the hospital will be doing everything they can to ensure patient welfare and comfort – you are NOT alone. Advice: It would be highly advisable for visitors of a delicate nature and highly emotional state not to attend.
THE WAITING PROCESS: It may take a few minutes or hours before you receive news of your loved one. Try to relax and use the time to alert your family and friends because they will be a huge support for you emotionally as you realise that you are not alone. Every case is different and it’s advisable to follow medial advice.
I.C.U. AND VISITS: When you are allowed to visit, it may be difficult for your loved one to respond. Talk plenty to let them know that you are there – your presence will be very reassuring. If you are allowed to touch – caresses and gentle hugs will further reassure them.
If the patient is in a coma or heavily sedated, it wouldn’t do any harm to do the above suggestions if the medical staff allow. Although the patient may appear “out of reach” to you, there will always be the possibility that they could register through their coma / sedated state. The brain is an amazing thing and, depending on the individual, your messages and touch could have some sort of positive affect.
HOW YOU CAN YOU HELP?: While you wait for updates, you will have to learn a bit more about your loved one’s condition and how to help them through recovery. This kind of research might help you stay focused and remain more positive.
SOME USEFUL MEDICAL LINKS TO START WITH:
ABOUT STROKES: An explanation of the types of strokes and the effects . Please CLICK HERE for information.
STROKE / BLEEDS: This article might help to explain what Hemorrhagic Stroke Bleeds are – Please CLICK HERE for information.
SPASTICITY CONDITION: Is a condition that develops after a stroke when the muscles stiffen affecting movement, speech and gait in recovery. Please CLICK HERE for information.
SPASTICITY TREATMENT: The details might help you with your recovery. Please CLICK HERE for information.